we live close by each other but we just talk on the phone
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
im 15 right now. and my bf is 18. we are in a relation since 3 yrs. we live close by each other but we just talk on the phone. we meet rarely. i think that i should start meeting him only after i finish with my school life. he often asks me to meet but i refuse. i know it hurts him but he also knows how important my studies are for this year. but sometimes even i cant control without meeting. what should i do? should i go ahead or wait for a year?
My advice is to agree to meet him once every two months.
Later you might decide that one month is ok, but start with two.
Just be sure that your schoolwork does not suffer. If it does, then you should tell him you will not meet him again until school is done.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com