i feel like she is loosing intrest in me and i really do not want that to happen
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
my gf and i have been going out for 6 months since yesturday. lately though she has been acting really weird. she doesnt talk as much to me while were on AOL instant messanger as she use to. she says its because shes looking at myspaces. also on some of her friends on myspaces that are guys she has been saying things like "hey so and so, when are we going to hang out again?" idk she might just be being friendly but she never use to do that. she also hasnt been to excited about us hanging out either. like a conversation i just has with her about 10 minutes ago.
ZATO zero ONE: ok well
ZATO zero ONE: im extremely bored so either one of us bikes or both or i take a nap.
LandingOnMyFace: meh, go take a nap i guess
ZATO zero ONE: so you dont want to do anything tonight?
LandingOnMyFace: i guess not
ZATO zero ONE: k
im not sure if i should be worried about this but i really am. i feel like she is loosing intrest in me and i really do not want that to happen. any help and advice will work. thank you.
You are going to have to become more active if you want to keep her.
Think of activities you two can do like going out for dinner or for a walk in the park. Hanging out is ok but you have to mix in some real dates for fun.
Have good long conversations in person where you share your feelings and build your relationship. Love, honesty, caring, paying attention, trust are important things to share.
Good luck with her!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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