now one week later she stopped calling me and she told me she is happy where she is
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i was with my ex for 5 years and talking about getting married and all of a sudden she broke up with me and i tried everything for the past 4 months to get over her and finally last weekend we met and she cried her eyes out to me telling me she wanted to get back with me and she wasnt happy where she was and she doesnt know why i still even want to talk to her and i didnt bring any of this on i didnt tell her how much i miss her or anything she brought it up and now one week later she stopped calling me and she told me she is happy where she is and sorry for missleading me that we would get back that she is happy with the guy she is with and things are better now. what should i do bc i still feel i am right about her but she cant accept the fact i live away from her but i said i would move anywhere . i realize i cant live without her and will do anything for her but i dont know what else to do this is my last resort. ive read and tried everything i felt i need help if i could just talk to her and her tell me she hates me i feel like that would be better then this. please direct me in the right way. thanks a million for anyhelp god knows i need it. i mean feeling this way after 4 months of not being with her cant be a wrong feeling can it? espically after she confirmened what i thought and felt she was thinking. god please help me
You are in a tough situation and I don't envy you.
You know how much the odds are against you on all of this but are trying to figure a way around them.
My advice is to ask her for one last meeting (she owes you it) to clear the air. Once you meet her be sure to let her know you still love her. Ask her why one week she was with you and next week away from you.
This is not going to do much to get her back is my guess, but it is one of the few shots you have left. Maybe being in your presence is what makes her like you.
Anyhow, I wish you all the luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com