We recently broke it off.. well I did, because she already broke up with me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and this female has been together for 1 1/2 years. We've been through alot together. Good and bad. I never had this feeling any female before. We recently broke it off.. well I did, because she already broke up wit me. I just didn't want to except. Even after that, we still do things together. She still wants to be my friend and all. I don't really don't know what to do. She said that she really doesn't see "US" right now. She still likes to go out with me, but we haven't done anything in a while. The last time we went out together was a couple of weeks ago. It also seems that I was pursuing her too hard and thats what I think messed me up with her and pushed her away. I am seeing this other female who wants to make something, but its way too fast and I'm not rushing into nothing. I only knew this girl for 2 weeks. I haven't had sex with or nothing. What should I do? Should I move on with my life or and wait to see if she comes back around? Stop calling her? What should I do? Give me advice.
Make sure she knows you love her and want her back.
Do this gently so she isn't scared away. Tell her that if she has other feelings you understand and will try to move on. This will tell her that she cannot manipulate you since you are under control of your own destiny.
With any luck, she will come back to you in short order. If not, there are plenty of other fish in the seas.
-- from George
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