I was with this girl for about a year and 7 months until I realized that she just want to be friends
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I was with this girl for about a year and 7 months until I came to the realization that she just want to be friends. It seemed like I was the only one trying to keep us together, but she wanted no part of it. Sometimes she made it seem like she had deep feelings and that she'll come back around. I called her mostly and went to her house more than she came to mine. It seems like I was chasing a ghost. I finally said to myself that its not gonna work. It just happened yesterday. I don't know if she is seeing other people. She is very noncha,ant and stubborn and also manipulative. What am I to do? It seems that I was the one doing all the work. How can I tell if she loves me or wants to be with me?PLEASE HELP!
You need to have a close, friendly talk with this "ghost" and find out how she feels about you.
Just ask her outright and see what she says.
Ask her under what circumstances would she come back to you.
Make sure she knows that you still love her and want her back. Don't come on too strong because that might scare her away.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com