Last week, she met some guy and started going out with him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hey, i wrote to you guys before, but now I really need help.
Ok, so me and my ex were going out on and off since last week. Me and her did some things together that got my mom mad recently, so we arent allowed to hang out unsupervised. So, we went on a bus twice because a relative of mine is a driver there at the bus company, and we went to work with him. We would kiss and do a lot of things, but we couldnt hang out alone still. She got frustrated and said one day that it wasnt work it cause we wouldnt be able to see each other again. I told her to wait, as this problem would settle itself out. Last week, she met some guy and started going out with him. Now, she always tells me she loves me, but this time she said she loves me as a friend too. So, shes going out with this guy and i feel i could of got her back, but i was an asshole and didnt want to bother with her and i said "ok, whatever. im already over you" so she got over me this weekend. I wrote her a letter telling her to wait for me, but she didnt get it yet. What can i possibly do to get her back? i love her and she loves me, but i think she doesnt want to put me through anymore emotional problems, so shes trying to force me to get over her. Does that make sence? Please help, I really want her back if its possible...
You are in a difficult situation.
She keeps popping in and out of your life and has boyfriends during the breaks. Your best bet is to have a long meaningful, loving, honest conversation with her to try to improve your communication.
Tell her you still love her and will wait for her. She may respond to that and come back to you. But I foresee a lot more of this breaking up in the future.
-- from George
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