And surprise, the girl(A*)who invited me show me the 'real' her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi!Hope u remember me. Well i listened 2 ur advice and went to the ball...But first there's a problem.B4 the ball, i'm not sure should i go or not,the reason is because...well the girl (called her A*)that asked me 2 go...i'm not sure y she asked me, her friend said she likes me coz she flirts at me, but doubt that. But then there's another girl, which want me 2 go...Coz of that i made up mind and chose ball rather than sports...So i went.And surprise, the girl(A*)who invited me show me the 'real' her. And i realised that we r not as similar after all, or u r sort of opposite...then after the ball, she's so happy coz she danced with the guy she likes, she talked about it all dae and i just dunno what 2 do... And also another thing, the other girl that want me 2 go, told me she like me after the ball(probably coz my friend rejected her and i tried to take care of her during the ball)
Now here are the questions:
Should i tell A* how i feel(again) after i met the 'real' her?
I felt so jealous of that guy and i felt awkward when i see her, what should i do?
What about the other girl?(by the way, she's younger than me)
I need ur help, i don't kno what 2 do, I don't want 2 lose them as friends...plz help me, this is very complicated
Tell A* that you have found someone else and that you hope you can still be friends.
Tell the other one that you are developing feelings for her and see what happens. Sometimes you have to be strong and take risks to find out what's really what.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com