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i have a decision to make but the 2 choices i have will both cause me pain!



Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i am 15 years old. me n my boyfriend have been togeva for ova 8 months, before that for nearly 5 months. about 5 months ago i had an abortion, but that is all forgotten about. i truly truly love him. i know im underage and all this but that is not what im asking. i have a problem - i have a decision to make but the 2 choices i have will both cause me pain! i love him dearly but he makes me feel lyk sh*t. most of the tym he dnt mean to, n we can have the best time togeva eva! but for the past few months i havnt bin happy. jst as i get the courage to end it, he does sumit n i fall wonderfully in love agen. but it soon changes. my 2 choices - i can either carry on goin out wit him n b miserable, or i can end it wit him, but b miserable coz i need him. im so confused n i cnt reli explain the whole situation on ere. but PLZ HELP!!




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When you have a difficult decision to make, think about the long term consequences of the decision.

In your case, the long distance consequence is that you will eventually find someone who can make you happy.

The short term consequence is that you will feel some pain. But, you are going to break up with him sometime anyway. So why not now?

My advice is to break up with him.

Good luck!
George


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