Before we got together he had a ton of girls that were in love with him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
MY boyfriend and I have been together for eight months. We werebest friends before we got together and slowly began to fall in love. Before we got together he had a ton of girls that were in love with him and he got drunk a few times and made out with them. I was his first as he was mine. These girls though have not stopped calling him all through our relationship, eventhough he has cut off all communication with them, or so I thought. A few weeks ago he told me this girl C* called him and she texted him saying I miss you, Love you, BLah Blah. Than today I got ahold of his phone bill and found out he started texting this girl K* and than this girl A*, when he had been texting me just last night saying he was tired and packing up for college again. I am so confused. He says He doesn't talk to any girl except me and that he wants to marry me. He did give me a ring, but it seems worthless to me now after all the lying. What do I do? Everytime I try and talk to him he tells me that same thing over and over that he loves me and only me. That we are going to be together forever. I don't believe him anymore. Please help me.
If you don't believe him, tell him so and why.
You don't deserve to be lied to and cheated on. It would be different if he would admit that he chats with other girls but instead he lies and makes you feel suspicious and upset.
Tell him how you feel and perhaps he will start telling you the truth.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com