If he likes me or wants to talk to me, why then he never says anything, He just watches me
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have been with someone in the past 6 years ago. Second date i got unexpectedly pregnant from him ! HE did not want the baby, HE d if i wanted, i could have kept it. HE
left it to me. i had a miscarriage 2 month of my pregnency. I called him and let him know. He was not sad, actually he said it was not meant to be and he did not even knew me and he said he felt bad for me but he did not want kids anyway. I was very much broken heart the way he talked to me. After that, he never made even a one
phone call nothing. For 1 year i have not seen him in the city. NEver heard from him either!
But a year after, every place i went he was around.
REstaurants i went, clubs, barss, even few vacations that i went. But i had somebody who came into my life , much older than me but loves me. I started being with this new
person. One day he came near me and asked how i am doing?
And asked who that guy was, so i introduced him with my
boyfriend. Than we started seeing him often.
But he always looked at me from a distance. We saw him
even in a different country.
I am not sure if it is a coincidence! Anyway, few years after,I got engaged and married to the guy i was who was much older than me. And i am still married to him.
I respect my husband and love him. We moved into a luxury condoand he moved into the same building building . What a coincidence. And still everywehere i go. i bump into him.
I can not describe this but it is bizaar! Since we became
neighbours we started saying
hello to each other after 5 years. It's been like this almost a year but i can sense,he looks at me and he has feelings for me. I can not describe it but i sense it. On the other hand , am i feeling that way because i want to feel like that? I am so confused. He says hello and looks at me all the time. HE actually watches me, I see that. I am sure i do have very different feelings for him, However i am married and try to ignore his eyes. Plus i am not sure if he really wants me back or what is he up to?
If someone did not forget me for 6b years, is it real love? or is he obsessed? If he likes me or wants to talk to me, why than he never says anything, He just watches me.
I am so confused, Please help me.
Different countries, same condo complex!?
Based on what you've said, I think he has an obsession with you.
You might want to report this whole history to the police so they have it on record in case the guy starts acting up in worse ways. Be calm with the police so they believe you. You may want to take your husband along to corroborate your story.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com