i wrote a letter to him, he never wrote back, and he started acting mean
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok i dated this guy last summer, and he told me that he loved me,but i was having problems and i was depressd so i broke up with him,i ended up going to homecomming with him and things didnt go to good between us at the dance.my friend lied to me and then lied to him, and it casued problems. well in january of this year i felt like i need to talk to him so i wrote a letter to him, he never wrote back, and he started acting mean... he would ignore me, and give me these dirty looks... and it continued for a long time.. well we are both activly involved int he same church so we see alot of each other, and its kind of hard to avoid oneanother... well i realized how much i cared for him,a nd how much i love him... but i ws afriad to tell him.... so i just let things go, and then i told him that i still liked him and that i was sorry, but i didnt tell him the reason why i broke up with him... well he still wouldnt talk to me, and he said he was mad cuz i broke his heart... well he just stares at me like he still has feligns for me and i thoguhtmaybe he was scared of getting his feelings hurt so i didnt say nething. well we went to a camp together and i finally told him everything and i cried,a nd told himt hat i loved him and i cared about him... and he was shaking so bad when he gave me a hug, and i felt like he still liked me but he didnt come out and say it, he just said im sorry for being mean,a nd i will start being nicer.... that wasnt what i was lookign for, but now when i see him, he just stares at me all the time with that same look as if he likes me.... WHAT SHOULD I DO? DOES HE LIEK ME OR AM I JSUT HOPING IT WILL WORK OUT? IF HE STARES AT ME WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? please help
He probably doesn't know how he feels. Probably a mixture of liking you and still feeling hurt.
Maybe he is waiting for you to ask him out to some event. It's worth a try.
He seems to be a quite sensitive guy so take it easy with him.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com