I don't want to ask any questions because then he'll know I like him.Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
It's me again. I have been seeing this guy for 10 months now. I just got back from vacation, I had to call him (work thing) we talked and laughed. He asked about a retirement party we're having for a co-worker on Friday and said he might go. He then said he might not go but wants me to stop by after the party. I suprised him yesterday morning, I stopped by his department and used the excuse that I had to pick up the cologne I had bought for him a while back to exchange since I would be going to the mall. He was all smiles. I was nervous but I acted cool. We went to his office and he gave me the cologne. I then said so how are you and asked for a hug. We hugged and then I said I had to go, 'cause I did not want to be late for work. I totally saw him checking me out:) Anyway, I called him a little later that morning and he said he was suprised. He said I looked nice and that he did not recognize me, whatever. We talked for a good while, I like him so much. Do you think he thinks about me as much as I think about him? He's not the calling type so I usually text message him. I texted messaged him yesterday, I know he's a player so I asked him if he sleeps around. I said I know it's none of my business but I don't want to catch anything and told him just to be careful. I also asked why I only get to see him once a month if that. What do you think he's thinking, do you think he's thinking oh no this girl is getting serious? We are supposed to get together on Friday but he needs to make arragements with or for his kids so we might not get together on Friday. I left off my saying how I wanted to be see him and to call me to let me know wether
he can get together on Friday or not. Now I'm just going to wait, if he calls, he calls if not, I'm not calling or text anymore because I don't want to become clingy or needy. Do you think he likes me? I don't want to ask any questions because then he'll know I like him.
He obviously likes you and there is no doubt that he knows you like him.
So, the rest is details. You will have to be the persuer since that is the way he likes. If you don't want to pursue then guess you are not meant for each other.
-- from George
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