we are in love with each other but we havent been together very long so trust is still an issue
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Well iam with someone and we are in love with each other but we havent been together very long so trust is still an issue. She calls me and tells me at 430am that this guy she met at spring break called her and wanted to know if he should move to the same city she is in. She said she doesnt know. He asked if she had a man and said yes and his response was well i dont want to come and break you two up being very serious. Naturally this upset me cause she says nothing happened between them but he calls her all the time late nights and then he makes that comment giving me the impression that he is more than just nothing to her. Maybe iam crazy but just wanted some advice.
Now is the time to have a heart-to-heart chat with her and find out what is going on in her mind.
The talk should be gentle, loving, and non-threatening.
If you are troubled by these phone calls perhaps she would be willing to make a stop to them.
Give it a try, it will probably work!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com