WE CONSTANTLY ARGUE BUT I NEVER START THE ARGUMENTS
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ABOUT 2YEARS AND 3MONTHS NOW THAT I HAVE MOVED ON AND FALLEN IN LOVE WITH THAT RIGHT PERSON IT SEEMS THAT THIS RELATIONSHIP IS WORST THAN THE FIRST. IT IS BAD DUE TO MY PAST, TO HIM HE FEELS IM STILL IN LOVE WITH MY X BOYFRIEND F*, WHICH IM NOT. I KNOW MY NEW BOYFRIEND LOVES ME I FEEL HIS LOVE TOWARDS ME IS STRONG, WE CONSTANTLY ARGUE BUT I NEVER START THE ARGUMENTS. MY NEW BOYFRIEND S* ALWAYS BRINGS UP MY PAST WHICH I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE, WHEN IT COMES TO HIS PAST HE SEES IT OKAY WHICH BUGS ME A BIT. FOR EXAMPLE HE HAD A TREESOME IN HIS PAST...WHAT DO YOU THINK WE SHOULD DO???? MAYBE IT'S OBVIOUS THAT WE SHOULD LEAVE EACH OTHER BUT WE HAVE ALREADY TRIED IT. CAN YOU PLEASE GIVE ADVICE. THANK YOU
Constant arguments are not a good sign.
You and your current boyfriend need to have long, loving conversations where you tell each other how you feel without anger or raised voices.
If you can't do this then you should break up.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com