we were once this great couple, but now she doesnt want to spend time with me or call me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I have been dating this girl for almost a year. She has been girl to me for the past 9 or so months, but ever since she started hanging out with an old friend(girl), its like she has completely changed. We used to spend alot of time together and she would always try to plan things that we could do on the weekend. Now im lucky if i get to see her at all during the week or weekend. I got her a promise ring and she loved it. She told me that she wanted to be with me forever and she would love me forever. Then her mom found out about the ring and its like she changed her mine completely. She said that we needed to be more like teenagers and all. I ask her if she wants to do something on the weekend and she gets mad cuz she says i ask her all the time. I dunno whats happened, we were once this great couple, but now she doesnt want to spend time with me or call me hardly. Can you please tell me what i should do and if we can keep together? Thanks
You need to have a conversation with her to find out what's going on.
Find a time when you can be alone and have a long, open, honest and trusting conversation. Ask her what has changed. She is the only one who knows what's going on in her mind and you have to ask.
Hope this works out ok for you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com