Showing a Girl I Like Her
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
this girl i like in school, im tryin to give a good impression and tryin to show her that i care about her and have only good intentions towards her, can u please giv me some advice, thanx for ur time
We're talking about one individual special girl here, not "every girl on the planet". So what impresses HER is different than what impresses everyone else. Some girls are impressed by lots of rough playhousing. Some are impressed by gentle poetry. Some are impressed by long walks in the forest. Some are impressed by going to fun comedy movies. She's not just a gingerbread girl with no brain. She's a real, living, individual with her very own wants, desires, and likes and dislikes.
What she would be MOST impressed by is if you actually learned about her, cared about her, and showed her that you paid attention to her hobbies and dreams. If she always talked about loving Violets and you then brought her roses, sure she would like them. But if you brought her just ONE violet, she would be incredibly impresed, because you actually paid enough attention to what SHE liked to make that extra effort.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com