But I can't help but take my jealousy feelings out on him

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hello, My b/f and I have been together for two years now and lately we fight so much I don't want to come home anymore. The biggest issue for me most recently has beenover his going out of town every other weekend to go to baseball games with his cousins. He goes to the game, barhops, and drinks, things I think of as the "single life" I am jealous becaus I work and go to school full time. i feel like he is having all the fun while i get stuck home doing homework and laundry. I don't want to take something away from him, butI can't help but take my jealousy feelings out on him. Please help

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Something's got to give. Either he has to cut back on his weekends away or you have to start going with him. Neither is going to satisfy both of you, but you have to start somewhere.

One thing to fix is you doing the house work. He has to take his share too. At least have him do his own laundry. There are lots of ways he can share the workload and some of it can be done on the weekends.

Good luck!

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