im a very pretty girl and i want better but i cant leave him cuz of the baby
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok my boyfreind i lvoe him so much im only 17 i gave up my life for him when we had a baby but now he goes out and i have no freinds no more and he wont let me go out what do i do? all of his freinds are single and they always hang out with girls. it just drvies me crazy im a very pretty girl and i want better but i cant leave him cuz of the baby what should i do i want him to commit more to us but he jsut feels that he has to go out? i feel alone with him
There is no easy answer to your problem and if there were, you would have already figured it out.
He is probably too immature to take on the role of companion and father and it will be hard for you to wait for him to grow up. You need to find somethings to do which will keep you happy and busy. Perhaps you could find other women who are in the same situation as you are. Take turns baby sitting so that each of you gets out of the house some of the time. You could call it a Babysitting Cooperative. I guess that might not work if the baby is really young.
But pretty soon the baby will be old enough.
Then you could ask relatives or friends to babysit.
Another idea is for your companion to take his turn babysitting so you can go out with the girls.
Hope some of these ideas help or at least help get your mind rolling on what to do to help yourself!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com