i just dont know if he wants the same things as me

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and a half. i cant stop thinking bout him and im always horny. he kisses and touches me but i wish he would just grab me and makeout with me. i always have these fantasies and urges but i dont want him to feel uncomfterable about it. he says he really likes me but i just dont know if he wants the same things as me? what does he want? how do i go abut doing them? should i let him make the first move, afterall he is the guy.

RomanceClass.com Advice
You can be pretty sure that he wants the same things as you do... he is probably just too shy to do them.

Even though he is the boy, you have the right to initiate activities between you. You can actually "go first" or if you are reluctant to do that, bring up the subject while you are kissing. Tell him you want to go further and tell him how far you want to go and what you want to do. This may be a little uncomfortable to do, but it is the best way to go. Open discussion almost always leads to better understanding and a better relationship.

Best wishes to you!
George

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