i haven't seen him since school was out.. and i just really want 2 c him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Okay.. me and my ex-boyfriend have been friends for a while. friends and friends onli.. but eventually the friendship we had turned into a (relationship). i mean he was my first love.. and i understand that i wasnt his.. onli because he was in love with this girl b4 he met me.. his ex,ex girlfriend. i mean me and him did everything together.. anytime we had a moment 2 b wit eachother we were.. but 2 get to the point.. me and him went out for 2weeks and a day.. it may not seem like much.. but b4 we went out we were still messin round wit eachother.. he would ask me if i was (cheatin on him) in a laughin matter..and i would say no.lol.. but i really cared(care) bout him.. and he told me that he cares bout me.. but we broke up.. and i just got the strength one night 2 call him and talk 2 him.. we were talkin and he asked me "so u still go out on the weekends"? and i said yea.. he said" to the movies"? and i said not nomore.. i b ridin round and goin ova 2 people houses.. and he said"who do u b ridin round wit"? and i said this boys name.. and he asked me if i liked the boy .. i said like him how>? he said as a boyfriend>?i said no we just friends..my first question is what does that mean?does he still really care about me?i mean in my head im thinkin if he didnt care bout me he wouldnt have asked me if i liked him like that.my second question is.. i still really care bout him and i really dont kno wat 2 do cuz.. im used 2 seein him.. and i havent saw him since skool was out.. and i just really want 2 c him.. and talk 2 him(in person).. but hes always busy..or has something else 2 do.. so i dont kno wat 2 do.. and i dont want 2 keep calling him because im not one 2 kiss anyones butt.. but i just always want to talk 2 him.. no matta wat the situation is.. so wat do i do.. if u please e-mail me bak i would really appreciate it..because i really need some advice.. thank you!!
Try to become his best friend again (without a relationship).
This is something you are familiar with and he will probably accept it since he seems to be interested in you anyhow.
Once you are good friends again, you can expect things to move to the next level because that's what happened last time.
This will take a little patience and I'm sure you can handle it.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com