he wants me to ask him first if i can go to places
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and i have been going out over a year, when i first meet him he was so cool, now everythings different i had to move to a differnt city which is an hour and a half away,it hurt me that we were going to be away however since then this change he is very jealous and he even hurts my feelings he is four years older than me and he brings up age difference alot, for example i still want to go out and hang out with my friends and he sees it childish. When i try to fix my self up he gets mad and thinks i want attention from other people, he wants me to ask him first if i can go to places at first i thought it was kinda cute but now i feel like he acts like my dad. We started having sex and i feel like its wrong because i wanted to wait till i was married, and i still want to stop, i love my boyfriend and i dont want to break up with him but i know allot of the things he does is wrong and i dont know what to do i need advice can i do anything that can help him?
You have a lot of problems with your boyfriend and one of them is that he is a control freak. He probably is this way because of insecurity based on the long distance relationship.
Level with him and let him know when he is out of line. And if you want to stop having sex then do it.
This won't be an easy process, but he needs it.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com