we're cool and everything is straight between us, but still I can't get no kiss
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Whats going on? My ex and I are still doing the things we use to do and I see the arguing slowly leaving the scene. Everything is starting to feel like it was before all this stuff started between us. She won't kiss me and its been over 2 months since we've been sexully submissive toward each other. What do you think the reason behind that is? Its not too much the sex, but a kiss? Come on! She shows me that we're cool and everything is straight between us, but still I can't get no kiss. I see herself pulling away sometimes when I reach for one. She blushes when I do it. Help me out.
Except for the physical part you and she are in a good place.
That's very helpful.
My advice is to take advantage of your closeness and casually ask her if you could kiss her on the cheek. She probably will say no because "one thing leads to another." But if she says yes then maybe one thing will turn to another.
Not much else to say here... she is in charge of the situation and the best you can do is to try to find out what is going on in her head. Perhaps she is attracted to the good changes she has seen in you but isn't quite ready yet.
-- from George
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