i want my ex-girlfriend back but then i dont know if i should take her back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Well, you see i want my ex-girlfriend back but then i dont know if i should take her back, you see today i found out that this guy named jr. had called her mistakenly dialing the wrong number and he started talking to her and she conversated back and gave him her cell number well she told me the story and told me she had a friend named jr. and well never told me jr. was the one she met on the phone and i love her so much and we've been dating for awhile now and well, turns out that jr. asked her if she had a b/f and she denied me and said no and when i 3-wayed them on the phone my girlfriend got scared and replied oh sh*t and hung up. So she calls back and i had her crying she was so sorry i dont even know i heard her convos with him they sounded nothing serious somewhat flirty but i don't know and well i want her back and i can have her back but i need to know how i should handle this situation i don't want to get hurt again, by the way this was after i gave her 1 last chance i only had given her 1 before that, and it was just because of the way she was treating me for awhile please help me.
If she apologizes strongly or explains that it wasn't serious then my advice is to take her back.
She may be a flirtaceous girl and gets herself in trouble through inexperience. You could help her understand herself better if you talked with her in a loving and honest way.
Don't be a pushover though. Be honest with her and tell her that you are upset by her behavior and won't take any more. If you don't she might start walking all over you.
Hope this helps!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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