Ive never seen this side of her, she never has been nasty like this
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
how are you. good...well i got limited time so let me get to it. I dated a girl for 9 months. we were together almost everyday. Im 20 and this is the first time i really fell for a girl in many relationships. She has decided to leave me about 2 weeks ago. so at this point i asked her why and she told me for a few reasons which are that I smoke and i told her i would quit and hadnt, although i have since we broke up. also she felt i had mood swings so i got some pills from the doc to take care of that. a few other small things but those being the major. basically i made the changes she was asking for to allow me another chance. but anyway since the breakup shes constantly on my mind, i havent contacted her much other then a few IMs and some flowers. we saw each other for the first time a week ago and she kept saying she didnt think it was gonna work out despite the fact that she is aware of all my changes. she also says she doesnt want another boyfriend she just doesnt want anything and that she still loves me. so a few days later I wrote her a letter basically saying im gonna leave her be, and for her to take her time and think things over if she needs to, but i would really like a second chance. told her i loved her and to call me in a few days....few days later, no call....few more days later, no call. Which brings us 2 today. her away message has said shes been sick for the past few days so in a last effort I stop over there. I bring her some cough medicine and some cold medicine. All I do is ask her hows she doing and tell her i miss her. I was gonna leave then but before i leave i tell her about a surprise i had for her that i hadnt told her about frmo before. I told her that I got front row tickets for her favorite singer in concert. She replys "I think you should take someone else," and I say "I wanted to take you." She then replys again with "I think you should leave." I say "ok" and walk out. Ive never seen this side of her, she never has been nasty like this. Its just killing me that shes being so mean and I am just confused. cuz as stupid as it may sound i do still love her and want to try things once more. please help....what do i do?
Seems you have done everything possible to fix this problem.
I can't think of anything else you could have done. And, I can't think of anything else to do.
The only chance is to drop back and become her best friend and hope that time will cure what's botched your relationship.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com