when we have a fight, he goes straight to her house and tells her all about it

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have been seeing a guy for over a year now. He is still best friends with his ex-girlfriend. The problem is that she calls and invites him to family dinners and he goes...without asking me to go. Also, when we have a fight, he goes straight to her house and tells her all about it. But the clincher is that the other night, he told me that he would choose her over me if he was pushed into it. I have never told him to make a choice. I have only asked him to be honest and open with me when he was seeing her. He tends to hide info from me about their get-togethers. I don't understand this because I have never said or done anything to make him behave this way. Do you think there is something more going on here?

RomanceClass.com Advice
This is a very strange relationship.

You have shown almost no jealousy over what would tear apart some relationships.

My hunch is that something more is going on but how you can prove it would be difficult.

Sorry you are in this situation!
George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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