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Alrite ive been in love before and its been one year since that horrible experience and just as i was getting better and feeling wonderfull hopeless love hits me again. theres this new waitress at my work place and i just cant take my eyes off her goin to work when shes there is so wonderfull i would work every day of every month of every year if she was. i just love the way she is its not only looks inside i just cant stop thinkin about her. i have found out she has a boyfreiend but she told my other friend at work she didnt a while back ok so goin on now she supposedly has a boyfriend and when she told me it hurt soo much i trully feel like i can treat her good and were in toronto and her boyfriend is in ottawa so it makes me feel a little better. the other day she had a bad day at work and she started crying in the kitchen and it just made me cry inside shes so precious to me and i cant take this i wish she never came there. I should have hugged her but me being stupid and shyt around her doesnt help. im dying for a place in her heart and i really want to tell her how i feel im tryin to do it without hope or agenda but its gettin harder everytime i see her im just so in love and i truly believe this isnt infatuation i truly do i would do anyting for her and if she wanted to wait a long time for a physical relationship i wouldnt even care as long as i was with her. i really dont know wut to do im scared of denial and i know that when she leaves cause shes goin away for school that im gonna regret not tellin her please give me some advise and im sorry that this is long i REALLY TRULLY LOVE HER. :(

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This sounds more like infatuation rather than love.

You barely even know her and yet you are head and heels in love with her in your mind. How about asking her out or make some effort to establish a friendship? She is not going to jump into your life unless you give her some warning.

You don't have a lot of time, get up the guts to ask her out or at least make friends with her. Then you may have a chance.

Good luck!

-- from George
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