he kissed me i felt like i was in heaven
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok i like this guy and we like each other we get together secretly (because neither of us are scared our parents will give us "the talk")and because my dad would flip anyway we broke up and one day when i was going out with another guy the first day of 8th grade we had a class together and he asked to meet me after school that night so i snuck out and met him we were playing around and it brought up all the memorys of our past and then he did it he slammed me into a wall and kissed me i felt like i was in heaven and then h made a bad move and tried to go down my pants i pushed his hands away and after we stopped kissing he put his hands in the air an backed up i stood there dumbfounded and now i have dreams that i wake up and i see him coming in my room and he lays next to me in bed and we just lay there talking and thats all i want is someone who cares for me and loves me no matter what but hes not like that he always is making cracks about sex then going im joking im joking and i feel i really want him i cant live without him everytime i see him my old feeling come back and i fall in love again i dont know if i can say summin to turn him so he just wants to sit on the couch and watch movies with me instead of fish and me sit there then we go have sex im a virgin hes not hot but i love him i know this was long but its complicating please help me if i can change him or what can i say to my mom or what could we do or what
You are probably not going to change him much.
But you need to try otherwise your relationship is not going to work.
Tell him you need to talk and explain to him what it is that bothers you.
You owe it to yourself and to him too.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com