Do I take him seriously and believe that he likes me or is he just a player?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have known this guy for probably about 6 months now. He is really cute but I have always wondered if he is a player. I used to just like him as a friend but am starting to like him as more than a friend. He flirts with me a lot but he flirts with other girls, too - that is just his nature. He is really sweet and every time he im's me, he tells me that he loves me (probably just in a friendship way). One time he said that if he and his girlfriend ever broke up and if I stopped liking the guy I liked, we should go out. Well, they broke up and I don't like that guy any more. We went to a movie a couple of days ago and another girl (a good friend of mine) went, too. He had his arm around both of us in the movie but he held my hand and kissed me (an innocent kiss) after the movie. Do I take him seriously and believe that he likes me or is he just a player?
He hasn't really let you know has he?
He could be a player, but in time me might become attached to you.
You might just want to ask him outright how he feels about you and bring up his reputation as a player. Maybe he has a good answer.
Also, there is nothing wrong with going out with a player as long as you don't get hooked on him.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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