There is this guy that I've been talking to for about 2 weeks now
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
There is this guy that I've been talking to for about 2 weeks now. We've hung out twice and he calls me. Well we've had some great talks and I really like him. It told him that I didnt want to get too attatched because I just got out of a 2 year relationship. He would tell me things like "I wish you would get attatched because I really like you and feel a connection" But for the past couple days he's been bailing on me. I had to cancel on him once to go to a picnic with my family. But the day that I went to visit the family, he went to the movies with a girl who he told me he had a purely "physical" relationship with. The next day we were supposed to hang out and he told me that he couldnt. So i decided to go to the movies with a friend and he got mad at me. He acted like he cared. Well that same night when I got home, we talked and he told me that he would come over but that never happened. Then that night we talked and he told me that there was this other girl who liked him and he wanted to give her a shot. So i figured it wasnt a big deal, I liked him but i could get over it. Then a couple hours later, we were both online and i IMed him and I was trying to be friends so I was asked him about this other girl. And he was said "Well, shes pretty, blonde hair, blue eyes and her name is blank" Thats me!! I dont understand. I cant tell if he likes me or not and he's sendiing me mixed messages! I just dont get him. What should I do?
He is acting very confusing.
You are going to have to call him on his games. If he says he will show up and then doesn't you have to ask him why and tell him you don't like it. Same for the rest of the stuff.
Some guys are very immature and need to be told what is good behavior and what is not.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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