and now within 2 wks. i have to make a decision of who i want to be with.....what should i do???????????

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hi!!! i've wrote to you before about my ex-boyfriend A*(we broke up because he kissed my best friend while i was on vacation,then we got back together then broke up and this repeated itself 4 times) and now now there is another person in the picture whose name is A** .Me and a** have shared many kisses but at the same time this weekend at a going-away party for my friend at a dinner my ex expressed feelings that he still loved me and this week i'll be leaving for a 1 week camp which he will not be attending but A** will be coming and my ex said that when i come back he wants us to get back together as long as me and Anthony don't have anything to do with each other for that week.Now,both A* and A** are friends and have been for 9 years and i've only know them for 6 yrs. and i don't want to break their friendship up but at the same time i have strong feelings for A* but while me and him were together when we would have a fight i would turn to A** for compfort and now within 2 wks. i have to make a decision of who i want to be with.....what should i do??????????? Advice
Talk the problem over with both of the fellows (separately).

They should each have interesting comments to make. You should not worry about breaking up their friendship... they brought this on themselves.

Also decide for yourself who you want to be with. It's your life after all and your feelings are most important.

Good luck!

-- from George
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