i have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 months now, and im not sure if i trust her

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Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 months now, and im not sure if i trust her. You see, there was this one incident, where she asked other guys to smell her. I was really pissed when i heard that, and because i didn't know that she was just joking with them, i was really pissed and sort of lost my trust for her. she cleared things up with me, and told me that it was just a joke between her and the guys. Do u think that its correct of her to ask them to smell her? i understand that it may be a joke, but isn't it a tat too personal? Now, whenever she brings up stuff about guys, especially when it involves getting close to guys, i get jealous and insecure. What should i do to not feel that way? How should i go about gaining my trust back from her?

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance!

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You are under the control of the jealousy demon.

Try to crush this demon before it ruins your relationship and before you get into the jealousy habit which could make your life miserable in the future.

What she did was a simple joke which meant absolutely nothing and was well within the bounds of normal behavior. If you are not careful, she will dump you for being too controlling.

For more advice on beating jealousy see our webpage on that subject at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682

Imagine that you have a muscle that fights jealousy and every time you successfully fight off a jealousy attack, the muscle gets stronger until no jealousy will bother you.

Good luck!

-- from George
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