I want to stay with this girl but at the same time i dont wanna lose my buddy's friendship
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
There's a girl I know for like 4 years and we were getting closer day by day..But unfortunately we went to different high schools.Anyway, last week we shared emails everyday and we talked about movies, she said she likes romance movies the best then it ended up like I'm going to lend her some DVDs of romance movies but we still didn't decide when!And she also said to me to take her to the movies someday :) BUT..Last thursday I sent her an email during class like everytime but she replied it on Friday, and that day, it came up short.She ignored me after talking a while...
Plus, a good friend of mine, has been with this girl for 3 months in the past and I just found out he still likes her...I want to stay with this girl but at the same time i dont wanna lose my buddy's friendship.
So here we go with the questions..Im so sorry but I can't resist asking just one question, sorry!!
Does she like me or not??(She was awesome for one week and then suddenly she started ignoring me)
What about my friend who still likes her??(he's really a nice guy, someone who I can trust, he knows my past and I know his past, he's like my best friend)
What should I do next?
Thanks!!Anything would be really appreciated, sorry for this becoming so damn long.Thanks again!
My advice is to step aside.
She seems to have lost interest in you, but, more importantly your best friend is interested in her.
There are plenty of other girls in the swimming pool (or fish in the sea)!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com