My bf of 10 months just dumped me... he never seemed like he wanted to kiss me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My bf of 10 months just dumped me...I kinda knew it was coming-he never really seemed like he wanted to kiss me and he stopped saying "I love you". Then one night I was trying to kiss him and he just pulled away and went to do something else. When he walked me home that night I told him that I always felt like I was getting in his way and I wasn't gonna come by anymore unless he called me and wanted me there (cuz I usually just drop by whenever cuz he lives right up the street). He was kind of pissed about that and didn't call me the next day, but I was hanging out with my friend and his brother and he came over too and thats when he dumped me....I know neither of us were really happy but it's been about a week and I want him back so bad. I know there's a lot of things I need to change. One of the reasons he dumped me was cuz he thinks I get mad too easily and that I'm too dramatic. I tried talking to him twice about getting back together and he said maybe in a year. He says he likes it better being friends and I kinda like it too...I'm still having fun but only because I'm trying EXTRA hard to get him back. I read the "I Want My Ex Back" section and I've tried having fun with other people, etc. But now I'm starting to think by doing that it's just making it seem like I'm happier this way too. He says he really doesn't want me back but we were messing around playing Connect Four (LOL I know) and he kissed me on the cheek then remembered he dumped me and goes "oh, wait". I want him back SO bad but he has no interest. Is there something I can do to get him to change his mind? I apologize if this was too long, I just wanted you to know everything that happened so you can give me the right advice. Thanks a lot.
You are doing all the right things.
Keep being a good friend with him and having fun.
That's about all you can do to try to get him back.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com