it kills me because i dont have a physical relationship with him but i really really need one
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I'm 16 years old and i've been going out with this guy for a year now and i've only seen him twice. i met him through my best friends sister who was going out wit him and wanted to brake it off so i did it for her over the fone. Since that day we kept talking, but i never seen him. Then he asks me out and on our 8th month of going out we saw each other. Now its goin to be a year and the more i talk to him the more annoying hes becoming. All he talks about it is sex, and when he does it kills me because i dont have a physical relationship with him but i really really need one. So i want to brake it off so i can find someone i can connect with physically as well as emotionally. But i dont know how to and he's really a nice guy and i dont want to hurt him.
Tell him the truth.
It shouldn't hurt him since it is so obvious. Tell him that you can't have a relationship where you see him so infrequently and that to you a physical relationship is an important part of it.
This may lead him to offer to meet more often and have a physical relationship. If you want to do it then your problem is solved.
If you are determined to dump him, tell him that it is too late in your relaationship to try to change things.
-- from George
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