there's this other girl that likes me, and i kinda like her too

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hey George, yea its me again with another problem. Im sorry if im annoying you to death lol. Well, you know the whole issue i had with my best female friend. Well, theres this other girl that likes me, and i kinda like her too. But i feel like i have to save myself for my bestfriend, cuz i REALLY like her and im starting to think its love. But she lost feelings for me over the summer vacation. But this other girl still likes me. I guess i dont know what to do. Should i go out with this other girl that ive known for a month, or should i try getting closer with my bestfriend (like hanging together more often, have dinner together etc..) so she can get those feelings she had about me again?

Thanks again for all the help Advice
My advice is to go out with the new girl.

This will show your best friend that you are not glued to her. You can still be best friends with her though. If you are going out with another girl, she may even find you more attractive.

Make sure you really like this new girl... you don't want to use her.

Good luck!

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