About 4 months ago I made the mistake and kissed an old crush
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been with my boyfriend for three years now and we have been living together for one. I love him with all my heart, although I feel as though lately we have become more like roommates and best friends rather then boyfriend and girlfriend. I am also unable to be intimate with him and have not slept with him in 3 months. About 4 months ago I made the mistake and kissed an old crush. One thing has led to another and I have totally fallen in love with him. I really think I want to move out of my place with my boyfriend, but the though of hurting him makes me so sad. He loves me and there is no way I could ever tell him that the reason I want to move is because of another guy. Do i just continue seeing the other guy on the side and pretend like my relationship is ok, or do I do what my heart tells me to do an move out? I think my boyfriend deserves a girl who he can trust.
Do what your heart tells you to do.
Your boyfriend deserves to know the truth. He probably guesses already especially since you haven't been intimate in three months.
You will be better off and so will he. It will hurt but not for long.
-- from George
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