I feel that I can only get closure if he talks to me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I asked a question yesterday about my ex boyfriend and his problematic ex girlfriend. But he still wont talk to me. I dont know what to do anymore. How do I get him to at least talk to me on the phone? I feel that I can only get closure if he talks to me and explains to me why all of a sudden he doesnt have feelings for me.
I answered your question yesterday. Here it is again:
Obviously your ex best friend was a snake in the grass.
She did all of the manipulating to break you two apart. Just for future reference, you should no longer talk with her or tell her anything about your relationships.
Your boyfriend owes you more than he is giving. Write him a letter if you have to and explain your side of the story. If you have never given him flowers before, perhaps now is the time to do it.
Good luck to you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com