we hang with eachother everyday and night till around 3 AM
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hello, my name is I* and i am 14. I have moved to a new town about a year ago. When i moved i was all alone, with no friends here at all. But there was this girl that started talking to me! Later on, we started talking more and more. We became VERY close right away! We both love eachother as friends. And i have been with her through many problems. One for example was a problem with her ex-boyfriend. Her ex beat her once and he was a pot-head! Keep in mind, this girl is only 15! She thought she loved him and didnt want to leave him, im thinking because he lost her virginity to him. Because of him, she started to abuse herself. She used to abuse the knife, if you know what i mean. Ive been with her through that, and convinced her to stop the first day. She would tell me "I*! Just stop trying to help me cuz its not working!" It would hurt me, but i never stopped. By the end of the school year, she came up to me and told me, "I*, im sorry for how i have treated you. I am soo happy you have been with me through all the stupid shit. I guess i just wanted to tell you that, you truly did help me and i love you." Me and her would always talk about going out and other things. We would also joke around about sexual situations. Now, its summer vacation and we hang with eachother everyday and night till around 3 AM! A few nights ago, she was over my house and found out her boyfriend was doing pot again! He said to her "I dont think about you at all anymore, i dont really like you!" She was crying her eyes off! I go up to him, and tell him off ofcourse! She was holding me for hours just crying on my shoulders. I really want to ask her out, but lately it seems like shes not interested in me as much as she was before. And she is completly obssesed about this guy out of state! I dont know what to do, please help!
Tell her that you love her and want to date her.
This will get to the bottom of how she feels about you. It seems she has her mind on other boys. But perhaps if you tell her she will refocus her attention on you.
I sure hope so!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com