if he didn,t want me he wouldn,t have bothered calling me back and talking to me on the phone fo so long
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
i took your advice swallowed my pride and went to my boy friend,s job,got him a little gift,and called him after wards to talk about this month break that he havent contacted me in and wanted to know why ,what did i do,,he said it is not me ,,he is not ready for a relationship and i am ready to find a steady relationship and settle down,he said he needs to take things his speed,he wants to be away untill he wants to come back,also said something that tickled me the wrong way,tht he has alot of girls that are friends,that if i called and heard a girls voice in the back ground i shouldn,t think much of it because it is nothing,considering that he is always busy on the weekends,and that he didn,t suggest to get back together or anything,is it over,,on the other hand if he didn,t want me he wouldn,t have bothered calling me back and talking to me on the phone fo so long,i don,t understand him,what is my next step,,i took the first move,i called ,i text,i went,i told him,i just want you to know what ever you are going through,i will be there always,i will be your friend regardless,,so is it all up to him now,,is my turn over?????
It sounds to me like your turn is over.
Except I think you can call or text him once a month and say "Just wondering how you are doing?" He does seem like a polite guy.
He has made it quite clear where he stands and you are not in the center of his picture but along the edge. Sorry but that's the way it seems to me.
-- from George
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