I grabbed her by the shoulders and turned her around and asked her to come back in the room
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My ex-girlfriend and I were dating for a year and we had started to have some problems because I liked to call and talk to her alot and I would always ask what she was doing, who she was with, not trying to be to controlling just general curiousity. And we went to Las Vegas with our soccer team, and out there we got into a fight and she tried to leave the room and was still screaming so, instinctively, I grabbed her by the shoulders and turned her around and asked her to come back in the room. She did, then realizing what I did, I asked her if she was scared of me, she said no. We talked and then went out with everyone and I kept my distance from everyone and she kept looking at me wierd so I told her to have a nice life, because I was scared and confused. We then talked and we broke up and promised to be friends when we got back home and she held me the next day as I cried and apologized and promised that we woudl be friends and hang out and talk. This happened on May 17, 2005 and it is now July 5, and we haven't spoken. I talked to her mom two weeks ago and she said the my ex didn't hate me, wasn't mad at me or anything like that, she just doesn't want to talk about what happened and go through it all, so she doesn't want to talk to me or see me but that it is not permanent. My question is, how do I get her to forgive me and talk to me again and at least be my friend? I still am in love with her and still believe that I am supposed to marry her, also how do I get her back? Please help as I am very scared and confused. Thanks
You will have to keep trying until she agrees to talk with you.
Maybe you could write her a letter and mail it to her and tell her how you feel about her. Perhaps send a dozen roses too.
Once she starts talking with you then there is a chance of getting her back.
I sure hope so!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com