Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I asked a question a little while back about the same topic...I want my ex back soo bad..everytime im near him my feelings come rushing in like a tidal wave..but the thing is 99.9% of the time he is an asshole to me..but then he is nice..its weird..he flirts with me..then he pisses me off..i don't get it..is this some kind of sick game? And for some reason i am attracted to this..this meanness..this bad attitude..i dont know it is weird..Im miss him like crazy.and it is really making me mad that he is toying with my emotions.....please help me..And i did take your advice from last time ..i called him and told him everything..and he told me that tehre was no chance of us ever getting back together..and that he has moved on and just likes me as a friend..but i dont buy it..my friend c* says that she thinks that he still likes me because of the way he looks at me...but i dont know please help..
Yes, there is something weird going on here.
If you respond positively to his bad behavior you are just encouraging him to do it some more. You are asking him to hurt you.
Your best option is to forget him... no matter how much you feel about him. He is no good for you and you are no good for him. And don't believe your friend's opinion that he still likes you. That is not enough evidence.
So, save your self respect and say good bye to him... and, who know's maybe it's just what he needs to start behaving properly.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com