would he be wanting to talk face to face to let me down when he could have done that on the phone

Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I told my ex about 2 months ago that i still was in love with him and told him if he ever wanted to talk about us that we could meet and discuss it. now mind you he is with the girl he has a chlid with but they are not married. it has been 2 months and today i called him and asked why he was avoiding the situation and he told me he hadnt had time. I told him if he was happy with the way things are now all he had to do was tell me yes or no. His response was he wanted to talk to me face to face. Im thinking if he didnt consider us at all he would have told me on the phone so what he has to tell me has to be good. My question is would he be wanting to talk face to face to let me down when he could have done that on the phone or is this a good thing and thats why he wants to meet me face to face.

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There is no way of telling or guessing.

He either wants to talk with you personally so he can let you down easily, or so he can try to start things up again.

You will have to wait until you meet to find out which it is.

Good luck!

-- from George
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