i really like this guy in my grade but he has a girlfriend.But i also think that he likes me too
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hey my story is like this: i really like this guy in my grade but he has a girlfriend.But i also think that he likes me too because he gives me those quick looks,the looks which i give to him and this has been going for almost a year.I miss him when i dont see him,i get really upset and i cry a lot when no one is watching.sometimes i really feel like going up to him holding him tightly and never leaving him.What do you reckon i should do?Tell him that i love him but what if he says he doesnt love me or just pretends not to.That would be embarrassing and will hurt my feeelings.Or do you think i should wait for the right moment to come.(ps:sorry for such a long question and i am 15)
Don't tell him you love him.
He already has a girlfriend and you would be putting him in a bad situation. Also it would be awkward for him if you just blurted it out.
My advice is to become a close friend of his. Talk with him whenever you can until you feel very comfortable with him. That way, if he splits up with his girlfriend you will be standing by ready.
-- from George
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