What can i do to make it better? i shouldn't cut off one of my best friends should i?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
my boyfriend is the jealous type, and not just jealous, extremely jealous! we've been together for six monnths and he still gets jealous about almost anything with other guys, he's gotten a lot better but it causes fights between us somtimes bekuz i'm best friends with my ex-boyfriend.i mean we reeeeally have a past together but there's nothing there anymore. is that bad that i'm such good friends with my ex? my friends say we fight all the time, and i don't think we do, but thas what his jealously is causing. miconceptions. What can i do to make it better? i shouldn't cut off one of my best friends should i?
Yes you should cut off one of your best friends-- your boyfriend.
There is no excuse for excessive jealousy that causes fights. You should find yourself another guy who is more normal.
You could give your boyfriend a chance to show that he can control his jealousy and stop the arguments but if he fails then let him go.
Jealous behavior is often just controlling behavior showing up in another fashion.
-- from George
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