I met this girl in April at a friends house. She was just IT.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I met this girl in April at a friends house. She was just IT. She was funny, a joyful smile and had just the same interests. I'm 24 and she is 21. We spoke some, but only in a group.
It was more of a coincidence, normally she's not at these events but hangs around with other people whom I don't know.
Now, I'm a complete coward. I don't know what to do. I want to see her again, as much as possible, but I äm not sure if she even remember me... and I can't just phone her up. The only "connection" I have is that a friend of mine knows her neighbour.
What am I supposed to do? I can't think of anything but her!
Life is too short for cowardice! You only live once and you will alway regret those things you failed to do more than the things you did.
You have two choices... one is to simply call her, introduce yourself and remind where you met her. Tell her you were very attracted to her and would like to go out on a date. If there is an opportunity for chit-chat before asking her out that would be a good thing to do.
The other option, which is less likely to be successful, is to work through your friend and his friend to make a connection somehow. I don't recommend this approach.
Good luck to you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com