I really love him but i dont know what to believe

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I don't know if i should break up with my boyfriend because there is too much he said she said in this relationship.My boyfriend's cousin keeps on telling me things about my boyfriend.He tells me that my boyfriend messes with other females,he wants to be with someone else,he's using me for money,etc.Yes,the cousin has told me that he is very attracted to me but i dony like him in that way.I don't know if he's telling the truth or just trying to get me to break up with my baby.I really love him but i dont know what to believe because sometimes I don't hear from him around the time the cousin tells me crazy things and I dont know how to approach him w/o him thinking I don't trust him.B4 I met the cousin things were fine.(please help me through my situation,thank you)

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Naturally, first thing to do is to ask your boyfriend for his story.

He, presumably, will say he is innocent of anything.

Next you ask the cousin to provide names of females. Seek them out and ask them what is going on. They will probably tell you the truth.

This is a messy thing to do, but how else can you get to the truth?

You might also want to ask your boyfriend to talk with his cousin and see how that conversation goes.

Good luck!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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