I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and I have a strong issue about one of his friends which is a female
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
This is the first time i have ever done something like this and hoping that being said hearing someone elses veiw will help.
I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and I have a strong issue about one of his friends which is a female, but that is not the reason.
This "friend" is a prostitute, has a big gambling problem, and is a god awful mother.
They have been friends for about 3 years, and what I have heard is unbelievable!
This women only calls for his money, and when she doesn't get it she throws a tantrum and says that the friendship is done...blah...blah...blah...And then he gives her money.
I have listened to a conversation between the two which, he let me listen- and she preceded to tell him that is was his fault that her marriage was falling apart. He told her husband that she spent the savings, and has been "TAKING" money from him for a long time.
He continues to forgive her and gets mad at me when they talk. I just don't understand the reason....
She has caused a lot of problems within our relationship, and I feel as though he is choosing her over me.
He is such a good person and has such a huge heart, that he has a hard time saying no....especially when it comes to her kids...
I believe that he is my soul mate- which needs to work which I am so willing to do, but is it worth it to argue about this all the time????
Somthing has to be done about that woman.
The way things are going, she could be hitting your boyfriend up for money years from now. I don't suppose moving away is an option?
Since he is your soul mate you need to figure out a way of this mess. Talking has not helped you a bit.
My advice is to see a professional counselor to help determine the best steps to take to end this problem. If your boyfriend refuses to go, go by yourself...you will be happy you did.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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