logo


Romantic Forums! Get the answers you seek quickly and easily! If you can't find what you need
here amongst our tens of thousands of tips and questions, be sure to Post in our Romantic Forum!
We've got over 9,800 members ready to give you a hand!
A Love Quote
Love must be as much a light as a flame. --Henry David Thoreau



I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and I have a strong issue about one of his friends which is a female



Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
This is the first time i have ever done something like this and hoping that being said hearing someone elses veiw will help.
I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and I have a strong issue about one of his friends which is a female, but that is not the reason.
This "friend" is a prostitute, has a big gambling problem, and is a god awful mother.
They have been friends for about 3 years, and what I have heard is unbelievable!
This women only calls for his money, and when she doesn't get it she throws a tantrum and says that the friendship is done...blah...blah...blah...And then he gives her money.

I have listened to a conversation between the two which, he let me listen- and she preceded to tell him that is was his fault that her marriage was falling apart. He told her husband that she spent the savings, and has been "TAKING" money from him for a long time.

He continues to forgive her and gets mad at me when they talk. I just don't understand the reason....
She has caused a lot of problems within our relationship, and I feel as though he is choosing her over me.
He is such a good person and has such a huge heart, that he has a hard time saying no....especially when it comes to her kids...

I believe that he is my soul mate- which needs to work which I am so willing to do, but is it worth it to argue about this all the time????

HELP!




RomanceClass.com Advice
Somthing has to be done about that woman.

The way things are going, she could be hitting your boyfriend up for money years from now. I don't suppose moving away is an option?

Since he is your soul mate you need to figure out a way of this mess. Talking has not helped you a bit.

My advice is to see a professional counselor to help determine the best steps to take to end this problem. If your boyfriend refuses to go, go by yourself...you will be happy you did.

Good luck,
George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




Visitor Submitted Responses
Our RomanceClass visitors have chimed in with thoughts on this question and answer. Click on a link below to read what their solutions are!

Needs, needs, needs

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit
 


Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Jealousy Issues

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response



Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.
Advertisement


Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel

Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening.

Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com




Bookmark this site so you can reference it any time you need romantic / relationship info in the future!

Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Twitter Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Facebook Add Romance+Class+Website+ to MySpace Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Del.icio.us Digg Romance+Class+Website+ Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Yahoo My Web Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Google Bookmarks Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Stumbleupon Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Reddit


 

Follow Me on Pinterest


Romantic Tshirts, Bags, Mugs and More!

Love is Patient
Love is Patient ...
Deeply Loved
Deeply Loved ...
Random Kindness
Random Kindness ...

These are just a small selection - Visit the RomanceClass Shop!

Join This Newsletter!


 
RomanceClass on Facebook




Join This Newsletter!

Past Issues





| About RomanceClass | Advertising | Privacy Policy | Submit a Suggestion |
All content copyright 2013 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

this site is for amusement only - professional advice is not being rendered

Exploring Believability