i think my fiance has a coke problem
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i think my fiance has a coke problem. we've been together for 5 years and i know him like the back of my hand. we've broken up several times over this and i thought it stopped, but now we live together and i've been finding straws and other suspicious items in weird places. my question is how do i approach this with out fighting, he can get very tempermentive about this because i guess he really doesn't want me to know. please help me i don't know what to do. i love him so much and i want to help him, but what if it doesn't work out like that? what if he turns it on me saying that i'm crazy...help me...please
You two need a professional counselor to help you out with this problem.
You don't seem to be able to help him beat his habit by yourself. Perhaps someone with experience can advise you. Of course, the tough part will be convincing him he needs to go since he may just deny it. If he won't go with you, go without him.
Hope this helps out!
-- from George
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