she always smiles and talks to me. maybe if i just try i will get her but nerves are hard to overcome

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ok meet this girl at the local caseys general store. i saw her around a few times and thought she would be someone i may want to get to know better. well one night i finally got the courage to talk to her. it went well i thought. i went with her to a friends house and we didnt get to talk much then but she tried to sit next to me until her friend called her away. well since then i havent really had the nerve to talk to her but i really want to ask her out. what i know about her she is great. i saw her for the first time in like a month and we kinda small talked a little. she seems shy but i dont know. my friends tell me she likes me but this is hard. i just completely get tongue tied when i go to speak to her. she always smiles and talks to me. maybe if i just try i will get her but nerves are hard to overcome. well thanks for listening if you can help please do i need it. i dont even know if she likes me let alone if i should ask her out. thanks again. Advice
You are doing well so far.

Work hard at reducing your nervousness. The way to do this is to talk with her every chance you get. Tell her you are nervous and ask for advice about how to get over it. You'll be surprised how some problems just disappear when you talk about them.

She sounds like a very nice girl and you should make every effort to be brave enough to keep up the contacts you have with her. You should ask her to go out with you as soon as you feel comfortable enough.

Best wishes!

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