I still love her but she makes me nervous and I don't know to take her....
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I'm a 40 yr old black male,back in oct during the red sox run for the championship for the world seris and we dated it was a total of four months. I hadthe best time in my life, we connected well in every way, all except her ex boy she talk about and it drove me crazy,I never talk about my ex's there were tons of them so we foughtl the time about that and right befor the break up she said she " I have walk on egg shells around you" and the break up happen in Januray. On St Patricks day she sent me a text message saying hello I never expected to hear from her and she always told me, that she miss me as a friend and we been talking ever sense. On night aroundf I am she called me to hang out with her and her girlfriend and she gave me a kiss that knock my sock off I went home confused and missing her more all she keep telling me we are friends and brings up all my faults from the previous relationship, and always saturday morning she'll give me a call to hang out and do lunch or she'll come by to sit with me at my apt, for fathers day she wrote me on friday befor asking to do brunch for sunday. I don't know how to take the whole situation should I pursue her I still love her but she make nervous and I don't know to take her....
The best way to find out the answers is to ask her.
Just tell her casually that you still like her and also ask her if she still has any feelings for you. Promise her you will give up on your useless jealousy about her ex... is that really more important to you than having her?
To fight that jealousy, attack it will everything you have. Tell the jealous thoughts to go away and leave you alone. After 100 times, the jealousy will give up trying to bug you and go away.
You only have one life to lead, so make it a good one!
-- from George
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